Born in 1982, Kim Ji-young
Since its publication as a novel, Kim Ji-young, born in 82 years, has been released as a movie. It was a very controversial subject, so it seemed to be a bit different from the novel, but the movie was not much different from the novel.
Let's talk about why 82-year-old Kim Ji-young is caught up in feminist controversy. If we are housewives in our 3 ~ 40s, we can relate to the story of 82-year-old Kim Ji-young. But the problem is that you should think of movies as movies and novels as novels.
That's why the controversy is now. In reality, a child was born in a double-earned house like a movie, and a woman stops working and sees a child. But not all homes do. I want to tell you that movie and reality are really different.
In the movie, she went to the hospital because she had a child with one hand and continued housework with the other, and her arm was injured. Are there any sensible doctors who actually say that when we go to the hospital? Have you ever really heard that? A doctor is someone who heals you. If someone is sick, he will just fix it. Doctors who see dozens and hundreds of patients a day are not interested in me. Talking about my illness, deciding the direction of treatment and making a diagnosis is the end.
But in the film, I don't know if it's intentional or not, and I want to create a really dramatic consensus, but I put in the doctor's end. After hearing this, the husband (share) tells the doctor what is it going to do to someone who is sick about the action? So the men in the real world, their husbands, won't say that, and most of you are feeling unrealistic.
If that's the case, husbands in their 30s would say the same thing as Gong, the husband in the movie. More than that, there will be a husband who goes with you the next day and talks about it. This can be assured. The life of a 82-year-old girl depicted in the film, at the age of 38 as of 2019, will be a lot of mothers with elementary school students, and they admit that they are really sympathetic and that there is still much to change.
But I would like to say that newlyweds in their early 30s are just different. The poorest age group in Korea now seems to be the mother of children in her late 30s and 40s who came out of Kim Ji-young, born in 82 years. Kim Ji-young endures her psychiatry and even consults with a psychiatrist. Nowadays, young women in their 30s are really watching their husbands eat food on holidays at their homes. Think about whether you have a reference to work.
Consider the fact that recent couple fighting and divorce are common after the holidays. This is a measure that few women nowadays have their anger inside, like Kim Ji-young. For this reason, there are some houses that even families do not go to the holidays these days, and even if they go, they do not usually have meals alone. I do my mother-in-law and my husband. If not, you are unhappy and not all women live an unhappy life.
I think the film is controversial because it raises women's empathy to unreasonable tug-of-war. It's okay to interpret the movie in its own way, thinking that there is such a life. It is planted. This has been controversial recently and I think it is not directly connected to feminism that is still underway.
Wouldnt the husbands of younger generations really like movies, wouldnt I say that my wife was struggling but I'd take a rest? I hope you think about it. And not all families in Korea are acting discriminatory against women like Kim Ji-young, born in 82. If all Korean families do, then any woman's desire to marry will disappear, and people getting married year after year. Fertility has decreased, but children continue to be born.
If our society is really like a movie, it would be hard for a woman to have a career interrupted and work hard again. Career support centers for women with discontinuities are in operation, and the budget of the Ministry of Gender Equality and Family is increasing every year. One thing you should know is that there are many support centers for women, but there are no support centers for men.
The film is a fiction about what is likely to happen in reality. You have to interpret the movie as a movie, and if you bring it to reality, you have a problem. Kim Ji-young's 82-year-old controversy is because he is bringing movies to reality. Controversial, 82-year-old Kim Ji-young surpassed 1.4 million audiences a week after it was released.
Maybe you are driving women too victims, there are some people who are really happy, as opposed to movies, and there are also men who are living like heroes. Have you ever lived as a woman and have never been treated? On the contrary, there is also a man who has lived as a man and has never lived. Already in the current Korean society, it seems that men are on top, but women are on top. Looking back from house to house, not all decisions in the house belong to the father. The house is usually returned by the mother's decision. A certain group says that the top of our country is dominated by men, and that's the story of those people. In most Korean homes, the mother is the top. My house also has all the power of my mother.
Lastly, if you see the movie, Kim Ji-young, born in 82, and think that my life is like a hero in your movie, your life is unhappy, not all women's lives are unhappy. It's just your life. It's up to you to change that.